However, when you take the time to explore your heart and mind in deep reflection, you’ll have the opportunity to understand and know yourself better which enables you to translate what you discover into consciously choosing.  You’ll equip yourself to gain greater awareness and to wisely honour yourself and others when appropriate.   

This skill can elude you when we’re consistently having to deal with the ongoing challenges and decisions you’re subjected to in today’s world and when you don’t deal with issues truthfully fall-out in all sorts of ways occurs.   

Even though this topic may seem obvious on face value, when we delve deeper there’s usually certain levels of denial going on.  Even the denial of the denial can be a problem. 

When this is happening, emotional and mental imbalances eventuate and relationships are adversely affected and the overall quality of life diminishes.  

If this lack of internal honesty isn’t dealt with effectively and the cycle isn’t broken, you build your life in “shady territory” or on “unstable ground” and it’s only a matter of time that things start to fall through the cracks!  The consequences can be devastating! 

Here are 12 Simple Tips that build “Honesty Activators” Consistently

TIP 1 – When situations or conversations take place take time to reflect on what the truth is and be motivated by the truth rather than any other agenda. 

TIP 2 – Avoid exaggerating or embellishing the facts especially for personal gain. 

TIP 3 – Stop the bottomless pit of comparing yourself to others – you’ll always evaluate someone, or something as better or less than you so what’s the point. When you no longer do this you’re better equipped to be true to yourself consistently.

TIP 4 – Observe your habits, behaviours and the ways you conduct yourself to ensure you’re living in alignment with your words and vice versa.

TIP 5 – Don’t be overly concerned about what others think about you, but rather be committed to living the truth. 

TIP 6 – Be fussy about who you hang out with.  Are they people, who are dishonest in their words or deeds – remember you’re judged and influenced by who you mix with. 

TIP 7 – Take self-responsibility for creating opportunities to improve you or your situation with honest intention not for secondary gain. 

TIP 8 – Encourage and accept constructive feedback because you genuinely want to know the truth so you live and act on it. 

TIP 9 – Whenever a situation presents itself ensure your innate honesty prevails with honour and without diluting the truth. 

TIP 10 – Forgive yourself for past mistakes while being rock solid with being committed toward doing better. 

TIP 11 – Aspire to Being and Living your best self with your “Honesty Activator” in-tact and thriving. 

TIP 12 – Seek professional support such as a coach, mentor or practitioner – this is especially relevant if your past has involved deceit, betrayal or dishonesty.  When this is the case, you would have formed unhelpful wiring in your brain that needs to be addressed for permanent change.  By all means reach out to me if you’d like to explore further.

By accessing effective techniques and tools you can successfully upgrade your thought processes and reprogram your brain, so an improved benchmark of functioning is developed.